It's ok....I know what it is....Neil and I had a HUGE argument and, well I won't go into the boring details, but he said I spent too much time on the internet and up at the allotment and not with him (tho' when we DO get time together he's watching car programmes or heading off to bed cos he's tired!) and he went all childish and deleted my posts (a few on here and some on gardening forum!) to get back at me!!!! He's admitted he IS not feeling himself these days as he has the worry of his job (he's now off unpaid until G4S sort out his SIA licence - they should have done it weeks ago!!!) so he's got an appointment at the doctors today. I think it's his depression kicking in again
Anyway, we've had a chat and all is fine so I shall start a NEW thread on Monty with updated piccies....he's looking more and more like a cat every day Wendy said he purrs loudly now when you cuddle him
It is now....just got back from Quacks and she was really lovely and had a good long chat with Neil and myself. Neil has had his depression medication adjusted and has finally agreed to give counselling a go. Doc reckons just having somebody neutral to talk to will help him enormously I've told Neil I support him 100% (there was never any doubt of that!) and he's to talk to me if - or when - he has worries and we can work through them together.
Personally I think getting the medication sorted will help...as will him NOT watching so much tv but, instead, getting outdoors a lot more...even if only for a short walk each evening to give him a change of scenery
caz2golden: Seems to be boiling hot today!
Jul 8, 2018 16:47:17 GMT
scallywag: Been boiling hot down / over here in the East for past 2 weeks
Jul 8, 2018 19:35:17 GMT
caz2golden: Sorry not on much my PC is sending me around the bend every time I use mouse it double clicks when I only single clicked! Part of me is hoping it is a windows issue that will get updated rather than just PC getting old and broken!
Jul 15, 2018 18:14:21 GMT
alfiemummy: It's most likely your mouse that needs replacing Caz - that's happened to me twice now and both times it's been fixed by getting a new mouse
Jul 15, 2018 21:59:44 GMT
tonib: Sounds like it was a good job we didn't have Roman as a kitten then. He's never misbehaved like that, only his first Xmas with us when he half-inched the stuffing! - I hope that's not famous last words!
Jul 20, 2018 12:47:00 GMT
tonib: Lexie is another matter but usually not breakables - except potentially of herself when she fell behind the large display cabinet/sideboard on being left alone for the 1st time in our dining room aged 2.5 years!!!
Jul 20, 2018 13:27:50 GMT
tonib: She jumped on top (via the table I believe) & managed to fall between it & the wall & appeared to be suspended by her head part way down (the gap narrowed!) I had to get a burly neighbour in to help move it, quickly moving weight/breakables as pos. 1st
Jul 20, 2018 13:34:33 GMT
tonib: She was fine but got checked by vet just in case! That was a heart stopping time, especially her cries!
Jul 20, 2018 13:34:59 GMT
lotsofcats: I can remember when that happened with Lexi.
Jul 20, 2018 18:56:39 GMT
tonib: You've got a good memory, that was in 2012 I posted on the old YC forum
Jul 20, 2018 21:51:09 GMT