It's ok....I know what it is....Neil and I had a HUGE argument and, well I won't go into the boring details, but he said I spent too much time on the internet and up at the allotment and not with him (tho' when we DO get time together he's watching car programmes or heading off to bed cos he's tired!) and he went all childish and deleted my posts (a few on here and some on gardening forum!) to get back at me!!!! He's admitted he IS not feeling himself these days as he has the worry of his job (he's now off unpaid until G4S sort out his SIA licence - they should have done it weeks ago!!!) so he's got an appointment at the doctors today. I think it's his depression kicking in again
Anyway, we've had a chat and all is fine so I shall start a NEW thread on Monty with updated piccies....he's looking more and more like a cat every day Wendy said he purrs loudly now when you cuddle him
It is now....just got back from Quacks and she was really lovely and had a good long chat with Neil and myself. Neil has had his depression medication adjusted and has finally agreed to give counselling a go. Doc reckons just having somebody neutral to talk to will help him enormously I've told Neil I support him 100% (there was never any doubt of that!) and he's to talk to me if - or when - he has worries and we can work through them together.
Personally I think getting the medication sorted will help...as will him NOT watching so much tv but, instead, getting outdoors a lot more...even if only for a short walk each evening to give him a change of scenery
scallywag: hello to you toooo
Oct 23, 2018 12:33:02 GMT
tonib: It's 23:05 & just heard fireworks going off somewhere, luckily not the big bangs but still!!!!! It's not bonfire night or Diwali (that's 7th November) both are well over a week ahead!!
Oct 26, 2018 22:11:36 GMT
lotsofcats: That's early tonib. I haven't heard any fireworks yet.
Oct 29, 2018 9:17:41 GMT
scallywag: we had some too after midnight last Thursday Grrrrrr
Oct 29, 2018 15:00:37 GMT
tonib: That was even earlier than me scallywag albeit only the start of the same day instead of the end.
Oct 30, 2018 14:14:35 GMT
Gillykat: Update on Monty, Mouse & Nemo in the cat thread ''Monty's Brothers''
Nov 2, 2018 12:35:33 GMT
scallywag: sorry to read this God Less America hopefully she may return to you soon without a care in the world. spider goes thru this most nights, he is missing some then they return but then others are missing . Glad I am a dog owner
Nov 6, 2018 21:41:44 GMT
God Less America: Thank u so much scallywag - they say you never own a cat don't they - even when I collected her she was scared now she settled soon as she saw home and is having her prawns thank u scallywag
Nov 6, 2018 21:57:26 GMT
scallywag: Lovely to red this at the end of a stressful day. Thank God she us safe xx
Nov 6, 2018 22:23:33 GMT
God Less America: Yes she is around somewhere the lights are off here now I am tired it been a strange day
Nov 6, 2018 23:41:48 GMT