It's ok....I know what it is....Neil and I had a HUGE argument and, well I won't go into the boring details, but he said I spent too much time on the internet and up at the allotment and not with him (tho' when we DO get time together he's watching car programmes or heading off to bed cos he's tired!) and he went all childish and deleted my posts (a few on here and some on gardening forum!) to get back at me!!!! He's admitted he IS not feeling himself these days as he has the worry of his job (he's now off unpaid until G4S sort out his SIA licence - they should have done it weeks ago!!!) so he's got an appointment at the doctors today. I think it's his depression kicking in again
Anyway, we've had a chat and all is fine so I shall start a NEW thread on Monty with updated piccies....he's looking more and more like a cat every day Wendy said he purrs loudly now when you cuddle him
It is now....just got back from Quacks and she was really lovely and had a good long chat with Neil and myself. Neil has had his depression medication adjusted and has finally agreed to give counselling a go. Doc reckons just having somebody neutral to talk to will help him enormously I've told Neil I support him 100% (there was never any doubt of that!) and he's to talk to me if - or when - he has worries and we can work through them together.
Personally I think getting the medication sorted will help...as will him NOT watching so much tv but, instead, getting outdoors a lot more...even if only for a short walk each evening to give him a change of scenery
tonib: She was fine but got checked by vet just in case! That was a heart stopping time, especially her cries!
Jul 20, 2018 13:34:59 GMT
lotsofcats: I can remember when that happened with Lexi.
Jul 20, 2018 18:56:39 GMT
tonib: You've got a good memory, that was in 2012 I posted on the old YC forum
Jul 20, 2018 21:51:09 GMT
Gillykat: Wooohoooo updated piccies of the two new girls been sent.....they look adorable....and as tthough they'll boss Monty around summik rotten! My poor wee man
Jul 25, 2018 19:23:44 GMT
Gillykat: Listen! Can you hear that? SILENCE!!! The three ninjas are all asleep I shall enjoy it whilst it lasts
Aug 3, 2018 8:37:19 GMT
lotsofcats: It won't be for long. When I had kittens I just used to sit and watch them for ages - are you doing that yet?
Aug 3, 2018 11:09:00 GMT
Gillykat: Oh yes......just drinking their adorable cuteness Been picking up and cuddling new boys too and they're starting to realise I'm a harmless idiot who gives them a treat every time I do so.
Aug 3, 2018 15:37:15 GMT
scallywag: Thought they were GIrls ?
Aug 3, 2018 17:23:20 GMT
Gillykat: So did we scallywag Turns out, once I got them home, I checked and both are boys I'm VERY pleased about this cos I adore boy cats....always had absolute sweethearts of that sex in the past
Aug 4, 2018 10:07:36 GMT
caz2golden: Hi all, have not been on in ages and ages. Hope all of you are OK
Aug 26, 2018 10:53:06 GMT
scallywag: Yes all fine here Caz missed ya
Aug 27, 2018 8:07:03 GMT
lotsofcats: We have missed you! I hope you are back to stay.
Aug 30, 2018 9:30:32 GMT
caz2golden: The PC is still playing up so back when it is working would be best description
Aug 30, 2018 19:43:48 GMT
caz2golden: Another day where rain stops everything, I know I moaned when it got too hot, but this miserable weather is sending me round the bend!
Sept 8, 2018 12:35:33 GMT
scallywag: Ooo we had a lovely weekend weather wise , sorry you never , did that mean no work for you Caz ?
Sept 10, 2018 10:04:46 GMT
caz2golden: Both scallywag. I have been stood down at least once a week for last few weeks and had a few dismal days off too. Looks like tomorrow will be a wash out (due to work) and my next days off are when ex hurricane Helena is due to arrive
Sept 15, 2018 18:17:31 GMT
caz2golden: At the moment in middle of 5 days on, 2 days off, 6 days on, 1 day off, 5+ days on. This time of year though always lose a few days to weather. Grabbing what I can while I can, after-all I can have a break come mid Nov!!
Sept 15, 2018 18:22:12 GMT
scallywag: Un predictable then ? No luck with another job ?
Sept 15, 2018 18:26:17 GMT
caz2golden: I really should be looking! Problem is I enjoy what I do, just a shame it does not pay enough to live on!
Sept 18, 2018 16:34:25 GMT
scallywag: Shame . Enjoy it whilst you can , your a long time couped up in an office again
Sept 18, 2018 20:41:56 GMT