It's ok....I know what it is....Neil and I had a HUGE argument and, well I won't go into the boring details, but he said I spent too much time on the internet and up at the allotment and not with him (tho' when we DO get time together he's watching car programmes or heading off to bed cos he's tired!) and he went all childish and deleted my posts (a few on here and some on gardening forum!) to get back at me!!!! He's admitted he IS not feeling himself these days as he has the worry of his job (he's now off unpaid until G4S sort out his SIA licence - they should have done it weeks ago!!!) so he's got an appointment at the doctors today. I think it's his depression kicking in again
Anyway, we've had a chat and all is fine so I shall start a NEW thread on Monty with updated piccies....he's looking more and more like a cat every day Wendy said he purrs loudly now when you cuddle him
It is now....just got back from Quacks and she was really lovely and had a good long chat with Neil and myself. Neil has had his depression medication adjusted and has finally agreed to give counselling a go. Doc reckons just having somebody neutral to talk to will help him enormously I've told Neil I support him 100% (there was never any doubt of that!) and he's to talk to me if - or when - he has worries and we can work through them together.
Personally I think getting the medication sorted will help...as will him NOT watching so much tv but, instead, getting outdoors a lot more...even if only for a short walk each evening to give him a change of scenery